So as President of my HOA I can't actually talk or converse with any of the members of my HOA outside of a meeting? So my next door neighbor and I can't have a cup of coffee together in the morning to discuss "life" without being considered a violation of some law?
Like I said, there is a line between being a HOA BOD member/officer and just being outright HUMAN being. My pants get put on 1 leg at a time just like everyone else. So to define everything I do in terms of a BOD member/officer when I just live in a HOA is a bit much for me. It makes me shudder to think that I was the President who washed her truck in her front yard in a bikini for all those years and could have been considered "indecent exposure" violator...
Honestly, it gets to a point of paranoia when neighbors who are board members can't talk to one another even on a social level. It's like your forcing the BOD to live some kind of secret life behind closed doors so they don't give the appearance they don't do things behind closed doors? Where does that thinking begin to stop?
I encouraged discussions amongst everyone. My most useful tool was my 2 dogs. Walking those dogs allowed me to chat with most everyone in the HOA even if they were tenants, visitors, potential buyers, BOD members, or general members to know what my HOA really was and wanted. It was keeping a pulse on the neighborhood so that when meetings did happen, we could work together and get things done. I couldn't imagine NOT being able to do that as I learned so much from everyone on how to be a better president and understanding my HOA so much better. Let the people who feel your doing something behind closed doors feel that way...It's most likely because their door is closed with them in it when meeting times comes anyways...