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I am glad this subject came up because several of the homes in our subdivision have installed flag poles (most are not permanent) without permission. I have been on a board before and was chairperson of the ARB and during war times, I did not bother with flags at all and the situation took care of itself. Our rule was that if it wasn't a permanent pole, they didn't need permission. However, the management company did take issue (didn't discuss the situation with the directors until afterwards) and made a lot of people really mad, especially veterans of several wars who live here (we are in Texas).
This is a good time to bring up this issue, Roger, and to see your thoughts about it. I think you are in a different state than Texas. You are right about the rules, etc., but allow me to explain what has happened in our subdivision. I was a stickler for following the rules and expecting homeowners to follow rules and get permission, but they insisted on asking forgiveness instead. What has happened in our subdivision (I am no longer on the Board) is that a clique took over the board--a group of people who were like the group who couldn't handle the word "no". They actually had not been told "no" anyway (because they never asked approval to begin with), but they started defying the rules and regs. For instance, a new director took trim off her house (or her husband did so) and left the rotten exposed underwood there for a year, unpainted, etc.. Because she was a director, the management company overlooked this violation. Further, a resident who owns a restaurant close by and gives free meals to directors and caters free meals to the ladies' club of which several directors (now) are members, he (rest. owner) was able to get by with painting the trim on his house, his garage, his fence, etc., an awful pink and was not cited or dealt with about it--favoritism. Bottomline, now the subdivision is in the midst of an upheaval in which people are running amuke doing what they please, not getting approvals, thumbing their noses at the board, the rules, etc. I certainly can understand why, because it wouldn't set too well with me to get a letter telling me to get approval for a flag pole (permanent or not) while neighbor A has painted a house pink without an application (which color would not have been approved if requested). The president of the last year and a half is actually the reason this is out of control--she prides herself in being one of those free-spirts who thinks that HOAs are a waste of time and her only reason for getting on the board was because she is involved in select interest groups and convinces the management company to sponsor them, i.e. swim team and ladies club. She, visibly, doesn't follow the rules either, as she had trash sitting out way before trash day, and doesn't help to or enforce our deed restrictions, and took the sides with scofflows when they argued after being sent a violation letter.
So, the questions are--are you aware that if a violation is ignored and not dealt with within 4 years that it can be left the way it is; basically the homeowner has won by default? And, are you aware that if you do not require or enforce the deed restrictions (C,C&Rs) to one homeowner, that you cannot enforce them to another? For instance, no one can enforce the rule about flag poles if they have not enforced the rules about everything else. It is not a partial responsibility. Everything must be handled fairly and evenly and all or none. This is why being on a board is such a big responsibility. You must be honest and fair and you must not ask other homeowners to do things you will not do yourself. Believe me, the attitude of the board is causing the downfall of our subdivision. And to show you how bad it is--the president has moved out of the subdivision and her home isn't sold yet. It may take several more months (it's been 4 already) because of the apparent lack of control and lack of enforcement and attitudes of the board. It's also a matter of conflicts of interest and the management company should have been more careful and even now, should carefully choose their battles. It looks like HOA boards are becoming like any other "sport"--battles on and off the field and nobody is the winner--some people don't know the meaning of the words "ethical" or "fair".
Ed R