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SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
I moved into a relatively new 55+ condo community 18 months ago. I felt there was a need for a blog so that residents could speak their minds about community issues (i.e. issue with common areas, issues with apartments, social functions, discussions about various rules and regulations, advice on good restaurants in the area, recommendations for plumbers, electricians, painters, etc.).

So, I started one. I put a large photo of the Clubhouse on the first page and the blog has become quite popular in the community, but I appear to be on the Most Wanted List of the Board since, in addition to all the wonderful things the community offers, I also am not shy pointing out that there are faults with the community as well as the way Homeowner's Meeting and elections are handled.

Today I received a letter from the Board. It has three points:
1) I must put a disclaimer somewhere on the blog "acknowledging that it is not sanctioned by the HOA and the opinions are solely those of the individuals making the postings".
2) I must "remove the picture of the Clubhouse from the site"
3) I have to "refrain from posting erroneous, misleading and inaccurate items pertaining to the community".

I can fully understand why the majority of Board members (the ones appointed by the developer) would not want even a hint of bad news coming from a blog of residents, and maybe the resident Board members are worried about resale values if negative press gets out, but I wonder whether they have any right to make these demands.

From my perspective...
1) It would be easy enough to say that the blog is not sanctioned by the HOA, but, it doesn't say or even pretend that it is.
2) Since I am a condo owner, and therefore part owner of all the common areas, it would seem to me that I have a perfect right to put a photo of the Clubhouse on the blog. It is a beautiful Clubhouse and a beautiful picture. In no way is it demeaning and no post has ever berated it.
3) To my knowledge there has never been anything erroneous, misleading or inaccurate stated on the blog, but there have been some reports of leaking garages, broken garage doors, broken sprinkler heads damaging apartments, gates not working, fountains not working, dead shrubbery, complaints about how meetings and elections were held and assorted other issues. Certainly, if you did not want the entire community knowing these things, maybe you would want such posts stopped.

Don't get me wrong. It is a great place to live. It is just not the perfect place that the developer would like people to believe.

I would be interested in your thoughts about how I should handle this situation. Apparently, "The Truth Shall Set You Free" is not everybody's motto.

Thanks!
Steve
TracieS (Colorado)
Posts: 460
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/13/2009 1:55 PM
From my perspective...
1) It would be easy enough to say that the blog is not sanctioned by the HOA, but, it doesn't say or even pretend that it is.
2) Since I am a condo owner, and therefore part owner of all the common areas, it would seem to me that I have a perfect right to put a photo of the Clubhouse on the blog. It is a beautiful Clubhouse and a beautiful picture. In no way is it demeaning and no post has ever berated it.
3) To my knowledge there has never been anything erroneous, misleading or inaccurate stated on the blog, but there have been some reports of leaking garages, broken garage doors, broken sprinkler heads damaging apartments, gates not working, fountains not working, dead shrubbery, complaints about how meetings and elections were held and assorted other issues. Certainly, if you did not want the entire community knowing these things, maybe you would want such posts stopped.

I would be interested in your thoughts about how I should handle this situation. Apparently, "The Truth Shall Set You Free" is not everybody's motto.

Thanks!
Steve

Ok,

#1 - Just do it. Put a disclaimer at the bottom of each page... Perhaps they are trying to cover their own legal butts.

#2 - Is the picture a copywritten picture? Is it one you took yourself?

#3 - I'm thinking I can see your Developer Appointed BOD's point. Are the owners/members of your association using your blog as the place they make maintenance requests? I think there is a better venue for owners/members to address maintenance issues... Do they ever come back and post that something was FIXED???

Are you still under developer control? Based upon your post, I'm guessing you are.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Boggles the mind…..really? How old are you? Of course they're within their rights to want a disclaimer that your blog is not sanctioned by the BOD. As to the photo, did you take it or is it copyrighted by someone else? Even if you took it you might not be able to use it since it implies that the blog is part of the HOA. It's called libel and you can be sued for it.

In law, defamation – also called calumny, libel, slander (for spoken words), and vilification (for written or otherwise published words) – is the communication of a statement that makes a claim, expressly stated or implied to be factual, that may give an individual, business, product, group, government or nation a negative image. It is usually, but not always, a requirement that this claim be false and that the publication is communicated to someone other than the person defamed (the claimant).

In common law jurisdictions, slander refers to a malicious, false and defamatory spoken statement or report, while libel refers to any other form of communication such as written words or images. Most jurisdictions allow legal actions, civil and/or criminal, to deter various kinds of defamation and retaliate against groundless criticism. Related to defamation is public disclosure of private facts, which arises where one person reveals information that is not of public concern, and the release of which would offend a reasonable person. "Unlike [with] libel, truth is not a defense for invasion of privacy."

False light laws are "intended primarily to protect the plaintiff's mental or emotional well-being." If a publication of information is false, then a tort of defamation might have occurred. If that communication is not technically false but is still misleading, then a tort of false light might have occurred.

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SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks Tracie,
I took the clubhouse picture myself. In fact, I have put up dozens of beautiful landscape photos I took as well as some where the landscapers screwed up. I am an equal opportunity blogger. I have no ax to grind.

There are rarely complaints about individual apartments. It is mostly problems in the common areas.

The developer is still around and will likely be for 4 or 5 more years before everything is sold (just a guess).

Steve
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks, Glen.
I am old enough to have been sued before. I understand the responsibility I have to make sure that I tell the truth since that is the ultimate defense (it is why the other time I was sued, I was found innocent). I agree about the potentiality to be sued. Anybody can be sued for anything whether they are in the right or not.

The question is... What reasonable steps need to be taken to reduce the risk? Then I have to weigh whether allowing residents ( or myself) to speak about issues that need to be addressed is worth the chance that I get sued.

The only other option is to close down the blog, and that would be a result that would hurt all the residents in the community.
Steve
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
To whom does this image belong?
http://courses.cs.vt.edu/~cs3604/lib/Copyrights.Patents/Buchholz.poster.HTML

And this guy took a picture of a building built with public money.

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TracieS (Colorado)
Posts: 460
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/13/2009 2:44 PM
Then I have to weigh whether allowing residents ( or myself) to speak about issues that need to be addressed is worth the chance that I get sued.


I'm not arguing, just playing Devil's Advocate...

Is your blog really the only place where these issues can be discussed? I really think the appropriate venue is more a meeting between BOD/Developer and members/owners. Would you allow comments/postings by BOD/Developer to address what they consider to be falsehoods?

Is there a community website? Is there a community newsletter? How often does your BOD meet? Do you have owner's meetings?

Since you're still under developer control, I'd tread lightly. My association hasn't been under developer control for 25 years, so I'm completely unfamiliar. I've read on HOATalk that it can be pretty contentious at times, though, with the Developer having almost all (if not all) the rights.

Alternatively...do you feel the BOD's attempt to stop your blog (or reign it in within certain parameters) is infringing upon your right to free speech?
BrianB (California)
Posts: 2,820
Posted:
if you took the picture of the clubhouse from public land, or private land whereupon you had permission from the owner to be, you have pretty solid legal rights to it, depending upon the use you have for it.

Personally, I would leave it, and let the HOA sick a lawyer on you. then you can remove it, and comply, but until they prove to you legally that you can't use that image, i wouldn't just take their word on it.

Put in the disclaimer. it's easy, and it adds a layer of protection for YOU too.

Put in a disclaimer that you are not responsible for any postings except those bearing your name/signature. another layer.

stick with the thought you have: the best defense to libel is truth.
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Tracie,
I would be happy to have the BOD/Developer say anything they wish on the blog. I welcome their saying that something is incorrect, but, instead, when there was a tremendous uproar about the developer firing security guards and hiring others without even notifying the Board, it was apparent that they signed up pretending to be a resident and made some claims about what occurred so they could hide the fact that they were on the developer's side.

The Developer has a website to sell homes. No blog. No Newsletter. Once every two or three months, there is a Homeowner's meeting that either insists that questions be submitted in advance, or it is run by the Management company and only the head of that company answers anything.

There is no question that they are trying to suppress freedom of speech. Just like everyone else in the community, I do not want people not to buy and prices drop. I have no ax to grind. I talk about observations that are truthful and almost always backed up by photos.
Steve
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks, Brian.
I own part of that building. It is just a picture on the front of the blog. There is no text that goes along with it. Can I ask that the Developer take down his picture of the Clubhouse from his website because I own part of it? Yes, he built it, but the book says I own a piece of all common areas.

Truth is on my side now as it was back in '89 when my company was sued. After 6 years of preparation and two weeks of trial, and $700,000 in lawyers' fees, the jury took all of 25 minutes to deliberate and find that I was the truthful one. I won the war but the battle wasn't won by either side.
Steve
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By GlenL on 11/13/2009 2:45 PM
To whom does this image belong?
http://courses.cs.vt.edu/~cs3604/lib/Copyrights.Patents/Buchholz.poster.HTML

And this guy took a picture of a building built with public money.

Thanks, Glen,
Then the question remains... what picture can you put on anything? Looks like my grandson's face is the only thing that guarantees that I do not get sued (unless the obstetrician decides that he owns a piece of that?). What allows the builder to use the picture on his website? After all, the residents probably own 40% of that building since the community is 40% full?
Steve
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
Didn't Glen answer the question of whether you can use the photo based on the info in his link?

1. You're not selling the photo
2. It probably isn't one of the 100 buildings copyrighted in the U.S.

So enjoy.

As far as a disclaimer saying it isn't sanctioned by the HOA, take the inverse argument...unless you are saying it IS sanctioned, then it isnt't, so no need for a disclaimer stating it isn't sanctioned by the HOA!
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
There may be no "need" but it's pretty stupid not to just do it.

SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Michele,
On one level, it would be easy just to do it, but as with any dealings with human beings, there are multiple layers. It is obvious that the HOA is not happy with a blog that points out things that may not be right with the community (it also spends a great deal of time telling what is great about the community).

It might be the HOA's goal to make the blog go away by constantly making subtle threats and asking for changes. If they feel that pushing hard enough will get them what they want, they are likely to push even further next time. So, there is a point when a stand must be taken.

The blog is read and supported by the actual homeowners. The HOA is a majority of people who are not homeowners but rather developer hired. It seems to me that the homeowners have a right to have a photo of their clubhouse on the front page. It also seems that what the HOA views as "erroneous, misleading and inaccurate" is actually just the opposite when viewed without the developer's lens.

As far as the disclaimer, I am considering this, "The ----------- On-line Forum is not sanctioned by the ----------- Homeowners' Association. It was never our goal nor desire to be sanctioned by the HOA. This Forum/Blog is, instead, sanctioned by actual homeowners who are interested in knowing, in a timely fashion, what is happening in their community. Therefore, the opinions expressed herein are solely those of individuals making the postings, and the HOA, Forum/Blog, and administrator are not responsible for its content."

Does that work for anyone?
Steve
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,046
Posted:
Steve,

The disclaimer sounds good. When I published a non-sanctioned newsletter, the first article was that this is not the official word of the Association. In your case, you might even want to add a link to the Associations web site in that disclaimer. Something like:

If you were looking for the official site of xyz please click here to be re-directed to their home page.

Tim
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
The HOA does not have a website (that would mean that they would have to communicate often). But the developer has one. Do you think it is a good idea to forward people to the developer's website?
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/14/2009 10:00 AM
The HOA does not have a website (that would mean that they would have to communicate often). But the developer has one. Do you think it is a good idea to forward people to the developer's website?

Why would it not be? This isn't a war. But I can't stress enough how important it is to be sure to have a visible disclaimer that your site is not the official site for the HOA.

It is for your benefit and it is also the truth. Why would someone be ambivalent about either reason?
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
The bottom line is that in most cases, the reason a member puts up a website is to have a place for members to air their grievances with the HOA. Oftentimes the person who has the site has grievances of his own. This may not be the case here, but the OP did state that he started his "blog" so members could speak their minds about the community. Anyone with an ounce of brain knows that not all the "speak out" comments are going to be glowing reports about the BOD. And I wouldn't doubt that a few unsavory comments about the BOD have been posted on his blog. I'm not surprised the BOD is not in favor of this blog and has requested a disclaimer be posted.

IMO, the OP should post the disclaimer and make certain that the blog makes no reference to the HOA and in no way can be construed as a blog of the HOA. If that means eliminating the pic of the clubhouse, so be it. That way, the members can say whatever they wish about the BOD and the BOD cannot do anything about it. Unless, of course, it is libelous, in which case they can take court action.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:


Our Master Gardener newsletter editor always includes the name of any persons taking photos that are published. We deal with the City newspaper a lot and they will put disclaimers on many articles, especially if they are open to argument. It is such a simple thing to do for the o.p. If he wants to be an vital member of his community, maintaining a web site that allows bitching against his Board and Developer is counterproductive IMHO. It kind of compares to the National Enquirer verses the New Your Times .Who ya gonna believe?
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
Neither! LOL
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks Donna,
I have to take issue. I am a vital member of the community, and it is for exactly that reason that I started the blog. I can think of at least a dozen instances when things that were wrong were corrected, literally, within hours of their being pointed out on the blog. This, in spite of the fact that the Board tries to make believe that there is no blog.

However, I do not want to leave the impression that the blog was started so I or anyone else could complain. It was started as a way for people to help out each other with recommendations of plumbers, electricians, general contractors, restaurants, etc, etc. In fact, I created an organized thread that lists all of these and it is very long and has been accessed almost 2000 times. I often post pictures of how beautiful the community is and many homeowners and I talk about how happy they are here. But it is not heaven. Things go wrong, and the homeowners deserve to know when they do and have them taken care of.

Case in point... my building had a sprinkler head break late on a Sunday night a few weeks ago. It took close to 30 minutes for the firemen to get to the place where the breakage occurred. There was pretty extensive damage to the building because no one knew where the sprinkler shut-off valve was and said that even if they did know, they would not shut it off without the fire department's approval. One older resident's apartment was leaking like a sieve. Had I not grabbed my camera and done a blow by blow of the events of the night, it is highly likely that it would have been hushed up and no one would have known that there was a delay in response and a possible problem if a sprinkler head goes.

I cannot see how it is not in the best interests of the homeowners to have as much information at their finger tips as possible. My only goal to to help my neighbors. I am not a complainer. It is likely that the developer has some additional considerations in mind.
Steve
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks, Mary.
It is easy to physically write a disclaimer, and maybe I will. But I wonder (he thinks to himself with a smirk) if I can insist that the developer put a disclaimer on his site that it is not sanctioned my the On-line Blog. And while they are at it, perhaps they need to take down their picture of the Clubhouse because that's the way some of the homeowners want it.
Steve
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

GEEEZ Steve,

Why do you think that you can tell the Developer what he can do on his website. It sounds to me from your original post that the Developer has not turned over control of the community to the members yet. Is that the case? If he has not, he is still in control of the community and his website is his property and that includes the clubhouse. You may have bought part of it when you signed your deed restrictions but until you have turnover, it belongs to the developer and that includes the picture of it. Try focusing on the right parts of the community rather than focusing on what is wrong. I have owned 3, 55+ community units so I am aware of what the residents mindsets can get to be. Rather than making the Developer look bad, work to make things better.

SteveM9 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 3,699
Posted:
Its sad, but today's society is sue happy. Your better off hosting a blog or forum off shore such as russia, ukraine, etc. A take down notice from a USA lawyer will mean nothing to them.

Or just setup a blogger account anonymously. Never claim its your, use nicknames, etc.

Do your blog, but why risk getting sued. Not worth it, everyone looses.
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
Steve,

Here's the biggest problem with your blog -- you said: "I also am not shy pointing out that there are faults with the community as well as the way Homeowner's Meeting and elections are handled." You may have written something about the BOD that really wasn't the truth! People oftentimes complain about things they really don't have the whole story on, or even worse, really know nothing about. I'm not saying this applies to you, only that it does happen. Perhaps one of the members who posted a comment didn't know what he was talking about. IMO, if you want to have a community blog, leave out the "speak out" section. Write about everything that's good about the HOA. But, maybe that would take all the fun out of having a blog???????

SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Donna,
I was just kidding about asking the developer to take down his picture. Yes, the community is probably 40% sold right now. However, I believe there is no law against my taking pictures of buildings and putting them on websites. I am not selling the pictures. The building isn't trademarked, and I took the pictures while standing on a community road.

As far as the focus of the blog... it is solely there to help the residents. If that means recommendations of reliable contractors or if it means pointing out shrubs that had died months earlier or if it means promoting the men's association or if it means telling the story of a building that was flooded or if it means showing pictures of the excellent architecture or if it means discussing crowded conditions at the pool, or if it discusses how great the activities are, it is serving the residents. Focusing on only goodness and the positive and right parts of the community items serves nobody but the developer.

I am not a paid employee of the developer. I am a resident. I have no ax to grind. I want the community to sell out as quickly as possible and certainly would not want to hurt that process, but if mentioning a negative gets that negative fixed quickly and turned to a positive, then I have done my job.
Steve

SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Mary,
As I just said to Donna... writing about all sweetness and light serves nobody any good (except maybe the developer). If there are problems, they need to be addressed, and, posting about those issues has consistently been the very fastest way of getting those issues addressed.

When the developer made a change in the security force of the community, Board members were not notified. It was the blog that brought the fact to everyone's attention so the issue could be discussed. When our building was flooded, the Board members were not notified immediately, and it was the postings on the blog that brought the problem to everyone's attention. In both of those cases, nothing was said to the community by the Board at all. Without the blog, they would have been swept under the rug. Whose best interest is served in these cases? Certainly not the residents.
Steve

SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
SteveM9,
I agree completely that we live in a litigious society. It is unfortunate. But the reality is that we are supposed to be blessed with Freedom of Speech, and, as long as we do not abuse that privilege, we should be safe from losing those battles (even though the lawyer's fees can be prohibitive).

But I feel I have an obligation to my neighbors and my investment in my home, and because of that we have a blog.
Steve

MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
Steve,

The incidents you mention are a lot different than members posting untruths about the BOD's (the developer's) actions. For example, saying the election was held illegally w/o having any proof of it. It doesn't serve anyone any good to post rumors and lies either and I know you can't tell me that everything posted about the developer has been checked out and verified as gospel. Yes, I agree the blog can be used to disseminate info to the members, but NOT to spread malicious gossip and the latter happens all the time on these "blogs". And that's the reason for the disclaimer and also for eliminating the pic of the clubhouse and any reference to the HOA in the website address or title page.
DavidW5 (North Carolina)
Posts: 565
Posted:
We faced a somewhat similar situation here in our 55+ community. A resident established a website, on his own server that included a homeowner discussion forum. The board and community manager initially used the site to post association notices and information and to answer homeowner questions. When discussions appeared that were critical of the developer and the homeowners the developer appointed to the board, the board demanded that the web master turn over the passwords for the site. He refused, and pointed out that he owned the domain name and server. The developer threatened legal action against the web master and some homeowners who had posted information that was critical of the developer.

We consulted an attorney and a group of us contributed funds to create a non-stock corporation. Now all materials, both electronic and printed, bear the signature of the chairman of the corporation. As the corporation has, essentially, no assets, the developer is free to sue it, but has realized that is fruitless. We continue to do all the things we were doing, without the threat of lawsuits against us as individuals.

It cost us several hundred dollars to incorporate but it has proved to be worth it.
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Mary,
Your points are well taken. The blog was not intended to be a rumor mill, and I will generally chime in when I feel that someone has posted something which is obviously meant to incite or is untruthful or hurtful.
Steve
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
DavidW5,
Interesting solution, but I am not completely sure that there is anything that can prevent anybody from suing anybody else. Whether the suit is worth the paper it is written on, is another story, but paying the attorneys to get to the bottom of it all sometimes is much more expensive than any penalty that may be imposed.

Imagine if all the newspapers in the country were sued by our legislators and President every time they published something negative? No, we do not have the right to lie. But we should have the right to point out misdeeds without any penalty. I think the First Amendment should cover us, no?
Steve
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MicheleD on 11/14/2009 10:19 AM
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/14/2009 10:00 AM
The HOA does not have a website (that would mean that they would have to communicate often). But the developer has one. Do you think it is a good idea to forward people to the developer's website?


Why would it not be? This isn't a war. But I can't stress enough how important it is to be sure to have a visible disclaimer that your site is not the official site for the HOA.

It is for your benefit and it is also the truth. Why would someone be ambivalent about either reason?

Open the door a little and who knows what they will demand next. I think the OP is dead on with this legitimate concern. Michelle, it is also the truth that he has not stated that he 'is' the official website ergo, no need to deny something he hasn't claimed.
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
There can be many ways to communicate with a BOD. The BOD apparerently hasn't provided one easy way to get feedback (website) that this member has provided. A pro-active board also wants to hear about negative issues so they can be remedied easily. If you've got ten people posting about the same problem it might mean it is a problem. If you've got one person posting, it might not be as big a problem. Having one place for owners to go to to raise issues/concerns, and allows others to see and agree/disagree that the issue is a problem, should be seen as a positive.

A HOA can't hide or getaway from bitching and whining but it can respond to legitimate concerns. Seeing positive results can only be a plus to the HOA....unless they don't want to fix the problems.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Steve the Right of Free Speech is not absolute, there are limits, can't shout fire in a crowded movie theater etc. To use your words it boggles the mind that you can't see that the requests of the BOD are in fact reasonable, except maybe for the photo.

1) I must put a disclaimer somewhere on the blog "acknowledging that it is not sanctioned by the HOA and the opinions are solely those of the individuals making the postings".
2) I must "remove the picture of the Clubhouse from the site"
3) I have to "refrain from posting erroneous, misleading and inaccurate items pertaining to the community".

1) See the disclaimer posted by HOATalk below. You said it yourself - The blog was not intended to be a rumor mill, and I will generally chime in when I feel that someone has posted something which is obviously meant to incite or is untruthful or hurtful. But not always and therein lies the rub, unless you are willing to monitor and edit the posts before they go up you can't prevent people with an ax to grind from using the blog maliciously. So this protects you.
2) While you probably have a right to use the image do you really need the hassle? It would IMHO be more effective to replace it with something innocuous with a caption "Picture of clubhouse removed by the BOD's request" or better yet post the letter from the BOD in its place.
3) No brainer you can't deliberately lie about the community and you should be willing to post corrections. Even newspapers post corrections, usually days later and buried in mice type but they do post them.

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MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By DJ1 on 11/15/2009 9:23 AM
Posted By MicheleD on 11/14/2009 10:19 AM
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/14/2009 10:00 AM
The HOA does not have a website (that would mean that they would have to communicate often). But the developer has one. Do you think it is a good idea to forward people to the developer's website?


Why would it not be? This isn't a war. But I can't stress enough how important it is to be sure to have a visible disclaimer that your site is not the official site for the HOA.

It is for your benefit and it is also the truth. Why would someone be ambivalent about either reason?


Open the door a little and who knows what they will demand next. I think the OP is dead on with this legitimate concern. Michelle, it is also the truth that he has not stated that he 'is' the official website ergo, no need to deny something he hasn't claimed.

Calling "Bravo Sierra" on both those comments.

Why do you want to start a war that doesn't exist?

The HOA has every right to ensure that people aren't setting up bogus sites that a casual user would have no way of knowing is NOT the "official" site.

Frankly, you post is conflict bait.

DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
I hardly think this is starting a war but if anyone is starting one, how about the HOA by demanding he modify his site, a site that doesn't say it is an official site?

There is also the argument about setting a precedent for the demands. He could be easy going and just comply but what has he done wrong? Did he say this is the official HOA site...if not it kind of like saying my site isn't something I didn't say it was!

How about the HOA set up an official site and post it as such. When you google "official website of the ....". It really isn't his job to say his site is something he isn't claiming it to be! Conflict bait my ....!!!
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
I do agree that "The HOA has every right to ensure that people aren't setting up bogus sites" but,

Wouldn't the 'casual user' be the homeowners themselves and why wouldn't they know their HOA has no website and therefore Steve's site could not possibly be the HOA site since one doesn't exist?

The HOA could also ensure the same by communicating such to their members rather than relying on Steve to do their communication for them. ie. The xxx HOA does not communicate, support or endorse via any website.
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Thanks, DJ1.
It is ironic that my only goal in starting the blog was to help the homeowners, and people elected to do the very same thing are not pleased with me.

I have read every word of what everyone wrote here. Frankly, when I posted my questions in the very beginning here, I was hoping that I would get a single, unified group that would advise me one way or another. You all sound extremely sincere, and, apparently, as with any other forum, there are opinions from every spectrum, and I can understand each and every opinion because I have an ability to see problems from all different angles.

So, I have vacillated from telling the Board to shove it, to doing everything they ask, and every option in between. Right now, unless my mind (or this forum) takes me in a different direction, I think I will take on the first Board request by honoring their desire for a disclaimer, and my favorite wording right now is:

"The ----------- On-line Forum is not sanctioned by the --------- Homeowners' Association. This Forum is, instead, sanctioned by homeowners who are interested in knowing, in a timely fashion, what is happening in their community. Therefore, the opinions expressed herein are solely those of individuals making the postings. The HOA, --------- On-line Forum, and its administrator are not responsible for its content."

It does what they want at the same time it makes clear that the homeowners really want more timely responses to their concerns. It takes the HOA, the Forum, and me off the hook (theoretically).

The next issue to tackle (unless I change my mind about the disclaimer) is the photo. I have some thoughts which I am leaning towards, but will spend a bit more time thinking and reading here first.

You guys are all great. How about running for the Board in my community? We can obviously use you.
Steve
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
So what, Steve?

Is it a badge you want?

Is it an honorary degree of Neighborhood Ombudsman you seek?

You really don't sound sincere at all and it's sounding more and more like you're just using this forum as well as your "blog" to trash people who don't sit in their living rooms and post cr** on a blog and claim it's being done "for the good of the association."

You catch all the bad stuff. Good for you. No doubt many HOAs make mistakes or let some things slip from time to time or simply make a decision that doesn't go the way they want.

Good for you that you hold their feet to the fire and spread the news when things don't work out.

Puh-leeze.

Why not be even more helpful and actually run for the board and make the blog the official communication venue?

Take some time to sit in their seats, walk in their shoes and understand why some communications don't come as quickly, or as "openly" as you would like.

And DJ, with all due respect, there are LOTS of homeowners who would have no CLUE that the blog is not an official or sanctioned HOA website. Do you think the people in his development, out of all the developments in the country, spend a massive amount of time interacting with each other and knowing every little detail about their Association?

The answer is, NO.

Many homeowners will simply stumble across it, possible using a search function. Some may get there word of mouth and have no clue who is behind the scenes approving or sanctioning the input. Some may have even received some hard copy with address or email blast, who knows? But how, unless directly told otherwise, would they possibly have any clue that it was not the formal association website?

It's absurd and naive to think otherwise.

Frankly, I thought the HOA was rather decent in its request.

We've seen on here many times where HOAs have tried to shut down unofficial HOA websites.

It's a stupid move, for sure, but that doesn't stop many from trying.

Frankly, most of what they asked for should have been done by the creator at the outset.

If for no other reason than to cover his own rear.

MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
The point in my little rant to Steve above was to make it clear that I don't think there was one single person on here who said anything regarding the content or purpose of his site, that he should or should not be acting as association communication arbiter, or that the mission of his blog was either out of line or improper.

The ONLY thing that to me resembled a consensus from posters here was that it would be in his best interest to post a very clear disclaimer that it is not the official HOA website, and that he should take care that erroneous or potentially misleading or libelous information not show up.

And, as far as I'm concerned, that's not because it would make the BOARD "happy," but simply that both are prudent things to do in order to protect himself down the line.

I have no vested interest in his board, his association or even in him.

But, like most of the other association leaders here on this forum, I know all too well what sort of problems someone can find themselves facing if they don't take care with their on-line presence.

I just hope he doesn't get a muscle strain patting himself on the back so much.

DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:


BRAVO MICHELLE!!!
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Michele,
I believe no one here said anything regarding the content or purpose of the blog because nobody here knows anything about it. But, it was started because, in my other community, there was a similar type blog (which had no photo nor any disclaimer nor did I or anyone else confuse it for the HOA). When my wife and I moved in, I found it incredibly helpful for finding recommended contractors, favored hospitals, doctors, and places to go because the residents living there had experiences I did not.

Interestingly, about 8 months ago in that community (not my current one) a series of burglaries began (a first time event for a gated community that had hardly ever seen any crime at all). They were talked about on the blog by residents who were neighbors of those who were robbed. But, interestingly, for a couple of months there was never any mention of these burglaries in the community newspaper nor any mention by the people at Public Safety nor releases of any kind on the on-line community site. Why? My best guess is that publication of such events hurts resale values and creates panic among residents. So, perhaps it was best to try to handle the problem, but also keep it under the rug as much as possible.

Fortunately, the chatter on the blog became overwhelming and suddenly there were releases to the community that these events had happened and what was being done. I think that was a very positive outcome and a great reason why a blog serves a purpose.

That blog was not intended to bad mouth anyone (just as mine is not), but when an event arose that created activity on the blog, the blog was there to do its job and that is to inform. I wrote earlier about a flood in our building. The events parallel the burglary problem in the other community quite closely as they pertain to informing (or not informing) the community

As far as patting myself on the back, that's not my thing. Nor do I want anyone else patting me on the back. What I do want is for my community to be the best it can be. I heap plenty of praise upon the way my community is run. Occasionally, things happen that the residents need to know about but are not told, for whatever reason, by the Board. I am one that believes that openness is best for the homeowners. There is rarely a good defense for hiding things.
Steve
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
There are none so blind as those who will not see and none so deaf as those that will not hear. Altruistic intentions aside if you want to dance on a high wire without a safety net so be it but if it come back to bite you in the touches; don't say we didn't try to help. You'll notice that the only one really encouraging to ignore the HOA is the one who isn't a member of the HOA.

Studies show that 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions
SteveS8 (New York)
Posts: 128
Posted:
Glen,
I am a newbee here. I do not know who is and who is not an HOA member. As I said, I am pretty much convinced that I should write a disclaimer (in fact, I wrote above what it was). Then, let's say, I take down the photo and put up something innocuous, if that is done, is everyone saying I am okay?

I get the sense from Michele that she (and some others) think I shouldn't do what I do under any circumstances. No blog no matter what. No blog if the developer is doing something not in the best interests of the residents. No blog if important issues are not communicated to the residents. No blog, period. Is that the consensus here?
Steve
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
I'm sorry but you need to re-read the posts. The consensus I got was the blog is fine but you should comply with the BOD's requests except maybe for the picture. Not to name names but DJ is the non-HOA person. He lives in an HOA but due to an error by the Declarant's attorney the CC&R's were not filed on several properties including DJ's.

Studies show that 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions
RickW (Illinois)
Posts: 169
Posted:
I might be chiming in late here...I would think the blog is a great idea. I agree with the other posters that you need to separate yourself from the association. I would alos try to makie the blog available for only residents. That way potential buyers would not be swayed by information that they might not understand because of not knowing the complete picture.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

Steve,

No, that is not the intention here. What is bothering many of us is that a blog becomes a sounding/gripe/bitching site, many of which are unfounded complaints and rumors which pass quickly because of internet speed.

If you, the owner of the site would only communicate information that is true and worthy of publication, then we, (mostly Board members) would not be so bothered by the results of having a blog.

Maybe you could change it from a blog to some other format where you can pass on pertinant information and forget all of the trash talk about the developer and Board and everyone else that falls under the wrath of someone who wants to trash talk your association Board and developer.

Now this part will probably get your fur up, along with others but here goes. I have a unit in a 55+ developement and have had 2 others in 55+ communities, along with units in non 55s. I believe that those communities are just really hard to find harmonious people who just want what is best for everyone else. They don't have enough positive things to do so , they can be cranky and everyone has to believe the way they all do. As a Board member, I would much rather take on some snot nosed punk than an 80 year old who is on a mission of misery. p.s.--I am soon to be 67 so this ain't about age per say.
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SteveS8 on 11/15/2009 6:36 PM
Glen,
I am a newbee here. I do not know who is and who is not an HOA member. As I said, I am pretty much convinced that I should write a disclaimer (in fact, I wrote above what it was). Then, let's say, I take down the photo and put up something innocuous, if that is done, is everyone saying I am okay?

I get the sense from Michele that she (and some others) think I shouldn't do what I do under any circumstances. No blog no matter what. No blog if the developer is doing something not in the best interests of the residents. No blog if important issues are not communicated to the residents. No blog, period. Is that the consensus here?
Steve

No, Steve, you are wholly incorrect. Not one poster here either intimated, implied, suggested or out-right stated that you shouldn't have the blog. Not one.

How many times need I say I couldn't care less what your content is or what your reasons for the blog are?

Is it that you want us to be against your blog? Why would we care? People create blogs about their communities all the time. Most are prudent enough and have the good sense enough at the very outset to make it clear their website is not the official Association website. It's quite curious that you seem to think that is somehow giving up something in some way. But if it makes you feel good to throw some snark while covering your rear, go for it.

And if the way you communicate here is the way you present yourself on your "blog" then you really are heading for some issues. It appears you have serious blinders and are reading things into posts that clearly don't exist.

You are the only one bringing up all the whys, wherefores, and how comes about your blog.

All anyone here has said is simply for you to put up the disclaimers (and quit pretending to be a martyr -- that's the part I added).

And by the way, we most certainly do know what the content and purpose of your "blog" is because you can't seem to miss a post without providing us with a litany of the various wrongs you have righted through the blog.

And for someone whose "thing" is not patting themselves on the back, you certainly don't miss an opportunity to do so.

Why do you persist in trying to get us to weigh in on whether or not your blog should exist?

We only gave you our input on why it would be in your best interest to put up the disclaimers.

I don't even know why you are questioning or second-guessing it. Unless you really are trying to create some conflict with the board, I have no clue why it's even an issue. Given that your suggested disclaimer content is being used at yet another opportunity to snark at your board, it is questionable how non-partisan you can be with your blog. But that's your problem, not ours.

The requests that have been made really are for your best interests, not the board's. Why is it so difficult for you to see that? Is it because they asked? What if it were a friend of yours who made those requests/suggestions?

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,046
Posted:
Steve,

To take this into a completely different direction, have you considered offering to maintain a website for the Association? You can show the success of your site as a need for the Association to maintain one.

Tim

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