TamaraW (Ohio)
Posts: 193
Posts: 193
Posted:
We currently allow neighbors a 2 feet space around their garages and homes to mulch and plant flowers/shrubs under 2 feet without permission.
After this guideline was changed I saw in our decs that - the side of my neighbors garage that sits next to my carpad is actually my limited common area meant for my exclusive use, and this is so forth throughout the community, this is about 6 feet of green space. Decs trump R&R's so we need to amend that.
Side note - I am disappointed that our PM/fellow BOD did not pick up on this before sending it to the community. I should of caught it as it was my idea, anyway..................
My neighbor and fellow BOD wants to put 3 feet of pea gravel vs. mulch around her house. There is 12 feet between our homes. In the pea gravel she wants to plant bushes and border the pea gravel with a brick type landscaping rock. Not sure what they are called.
This would be the first time we have had to ponder approval of pea gravel, I do not want it at all for any home. We are really too close to each other. My arguing points would be: it is rock, our kids play around our homes, while I watch mine she does not watch hers, her 8 year old is too watch her 2 year old at times and I know the kids will get into it. It will get in the grass and the mowers will hit it and may cause damage. It will affect the drainage of water - and I feel at the area that is mine - standing water will increase.
This is a very uncomfortable situation as she is my neighbor, friend and fellow Director. We have some BOD who just approve without taking things into consideration, but I really try to look at angles when I approve something especially if it is for a first time.
We will discuss this at our next meeting - she states to the BOD her kids will not get into the rock, they will and she does not know that because she does not watch them.
I feel it is irresponsible of some BOD to just approve without any apparent consideration and think this will come down to a debate at the meeting. Another BOD is a neighbor directly across from me, she is voting no for some of the same reasons as me. As we know the truth about the kids, because we live by this BOD.
I don't want this to be a huge debate, but feel the other BOD's should consider all things before placing their vote. Aside from the kids, I don't want this around our community at all, I don't agree for us it is very visually enhancing.
How can I argue my points, if need be, without offending this homeowner?
What do the rest of you think of peagravel for this situation?
Is there some outstanding argument for this that I could use?
After this guideline was changed I saw in our decs that - the side of my neighbors garage that sits next to my carpad is actually my limited common area meant for my exclusive use, and this is so forth throughout the community, this is about 6 feet of green space. Decs trump R&R's so we need to amend that.
Side note - I am disappointed that our PM/fellow BOD did not pick up on this before sending it to the community. I should of caught it as it was my idea, anyway..................
My neighbor and fellow BOD wants to put 3 feet of pea gravel vs. mulch around her house. There is 12 feet between our homes. In the pea gravel she wants to plant bushes and border the pea gravel with a brick type landscaping rock. Not sure what they are called.
This would be the first time we have had to ponder approval of pea gravel, I do not want it at all for any home. We are really too close to each other. My arguing points would be: it is rock, our kids play around our homes, while I watch mine she does not watch hers, her 8 year old is too watch her 2 year old at times and I know the kids will get into it. It will get in the grass and the mowers will hit it and may cause damage. It will affect the drainage of water - and I feel at the area that is mine - standing water will increase.
This is a very uncomfortable situation as she is my neighbor, friend and fellow Director. We have some BOD who just approve without taking things into consideration, but I really try to look at angles when I approve something especially if it is for a first time.
We will discuss this at our next meeting - she states to the BOD her kids will not get into the rock, they will and she does not know that because she does not watch them.
I feel it is irresponsible of some BOD to just approve without any apparent consideration and think this will come down to a debate at the meeting. Another BOD is a neighbor directly across from me, she is voting no for some of the same reasons as me. As we know the truth about the kids, because we live by this BOD.
I don't want this to be a huge debate, but feel the other BOD's should consider all things before placing their vote. Aside from the kids, I don't want this around our community at all, I don't agree for us it is very visually enhancing.
How can I argue my points, if need be, without offending this homeowner?
What do the rest of you think of peagravel for this situation?
Is there some outstanding argument for this that I could use?