Posted By LindaJ on 06/17/2006 9:50 PM
Of course, there will be various opinions, and members will not agree with everyone's rules, but shouldn't a forum like this demand respect for the individual association community's rules.
Hi Linda,
I meant no disrespect to you, nor to your community rules. If my comments appeared to be disrectful then I apologize for that. Certainly your community is entitled to have whatever rules the community wishes to develop.
I was simply voicing my opinion of the rule, and pointing out the problems that I feel could result from a 50 pound weight rule. And because of those potential problems I feel that a weight based rule is unrealistic.
I'm only talking about the rule. I am not saying that you are unrealistic, or that your community is unrealistic for adopting such a rule. Your community has the right to develop any rules that are lawful, and I respect that.
What I would consider more realistic and workable is to have a rule that says, for example: "no dogs", "no cats", "no domestic animals" "no pitbulls" or only certain breeds by name that fall into a small dog category, such as "Yorkshire Terrier" "miniature poodles" or something similar.
But whatever the rule, it should be one that is precise and not one where a person who buys into the community is in compliance in the beginning, but after a period of time, by an act of God, the dog has gained weight and now they are technically in violation of a CC&R.
By an act of God, I mean that the dog, by breed, was supposed to weigh a maximum of 45 pounds, but through no fault of the dog, or the owner, and even with a strict diet the dogs metabolic system has caused a weight gain up to 55 pounds which is now a violation of the letter of the CC&R.
We purchased a Yorkie which was supposed to grow to a maximum of 6 pounds, exactly what my wife wanted. Had we moved into a community that had a rule of no dogs larger than 6 pounds, we would have been in compliance in the beginning. But our dog continued to grow, and he finally grew to 8 pounds. Our vet says that he is at the perfect weight for his bone structure. To lose 25% of his body weight to get to 6 pounds would probably starve him to death.
Had we fallen into a situation like that and were told to get rid of the dog or move, we would fight it. We would never give him. And we would not sell our home because of that. Instead, we would go to court to fight an unrealistic rule, and I believe we would win.
On a personal note, we are in our 70's and live in a community with people of all ages. There are retired people, there are people with young children, and some with college age children. We don't mind dealing with the issues that are prevelent in a community with people of all ages because it makes us feel young.
We are able to talk to and relate to our retired friends, and we are also able to socialize and relate to our 40 year old friends, and understand their way or life, which is not a lot different from ours when we were 40. It is refreshing for us.
We could never live in a retirement community, but we understand why many people like yourself would never live in a community with children, and we respect that.
Bill