CarolR11 (Colorado)
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Posts: 2,563
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We’re a board of 7 and a director for four years, “Kathy,” is very involved with our Social Committee, is board liaison to it, and is close friends with some of its five members. Kathy completely organized a Soc. Comm.-hosted cocktail party not long ago for which she did some elaborate cooking.
The lounge for the party had just had a granite bar installed, with board approval, between the little kitchen and the main area. Before the party, 4 bar stools suddenly appeared at this counter, which I didn’t see until the party. I’m also on the board, which did not consider or approve barstools. Surprised, at the party, I asked a Soc. Comm. member, who replied that they were “donated.”
Our rules do NOT permit homeowners, including, of course, directors & comm. members to place any furnishings in our common areas for obvious reasons. I’m 100% certain that either Kathy donated these as she’s a very impulsive person, who wants her parties to be perfect and who loves to shop.
Or, with Kathy’s knowledge, the Social Committee “donated” them using what was left of its generous 2011 budget, which comes from our operating budget. Their charter doesn’t permit them to buy furniture. My guess is that the 4 stools cost 12-1500 dollars.
Our Board didn’t meet in December and I wonder if I should bring up this topic in Executive Session at our late January meeting. I don’t like the idea that a director either broke the rule herself or, worse, advised the Soc. Comm. to do so. If I do broach the subject. how should I approach it?
I’ve always been a great supporter of the Committee’s work--about 9 events year, and hate to upset its members. But . . . what else might they do under Kathy’s “guidance?”
What should I do? It’s too late to return the stools (which are a style which I would not have chosen--but that’s a very minor point). Should I just forget the whole thing? Kathy by the way, has a history of sneaking behind the board’s back when she made a different common area purchase before she was on the board.