DaveS5 (Indiana)
Posts: 4
Posts: 4
Posted:
Hi there everyone. I enjoy reading all these articles and found them very interesting. Keep up the good work.
I am a retire Sergeant Major form the US Army. I have a proven track record of effective leadership of 27 years of active duty in both peace time and in war. My wife and I just purchased a beautiful Condo on a Gulf Course. Hopefully in the next year or so I can learn to play gulf.
We have a HOA in place. The HOA was previously in the hands of the developers. Since all the lots have been sold, the HOA is now in the hands of the property owners. We are in the process of creating a Board with 5 voting members. We are to vote of board members on January 5th, 20121. There were three individuals elected to run a temporary board until we vote in our new board. One of the individuals (Mr. X) on the board is relator and he is running for the President of the HOA. Mr. X is also my next door neighbor.
When we moved into our Condo, we received no welcome by no one in the community. We found that very odd, but we soon found out why, but that is a long story. After 2-3 months, my wife was outside with are little Chihuahua (name Luke) playing with him. The next door neighbor Mrs. X was also outside. My wife approached her and introduced herself to Mrs. X. Mrs X immediately started "in a loud voice" you need to keep your dog from barking so much. Barking dogs are in violation of the HOA by laws. Mrs X kept on saying things about our dog barking all the time over and over and over. Mrs. X completely discarded the my wife's introduction to her. So my wife went back into the house. Yes, our dog barks like any other little Chihuahua until they get to know you. Mrs X was very disrespectful to my wife.
We (my wife and I) stayed on the "high road", saying Good Morning to Mr and Mrs X to an attempt to be nice and friendly. They never return a greeting. Even today when they see us, they don't say a word.
Over the past several months we have learn from other sources that Mr and Mrs X are angry individuals becasue they had to move from a $800,000 house into a $180,000 Condo, and they Mrs X lost $1.3 million dollars from her mother becasue of her husband filing a Chapter 7 for a failed business. But that is there business and not ours. But they should not take it out on us. We are a normal retired military family, middle class that pays ours bills, and lead an active and fun life.
I also requested a meeting with Mr X, but he will not meet with me becasue he says it doesn't have any value.
After reading the above, could someone give me some advise on how to effectively run for office of the President of the HOA. I want to block his nomination and run for the position, to but in some effective leadership in the community to turn it around. I have more experience in leadership then in the military. I am also a retired Vice President of an IT Department. I know for a fact, I turn instill some leadership in this community that will make us all a happy family.
So how do I run for office ?
Can a request to debate Mr X ?
How do I exposed Mr and Mrs X to the community as non leaders, and are very angry individuals becasue of their losses?
In closing, if you have any suggestions for me, I am open to anything, please send me e-mail to: [email protected]
Thanks
Dave
PS: I am not a good proof reading, so please forgive me for any grammar or spelling mistakes.
I am a retire Sergeant Major form the US Army. I have a proven track record of effective leadership of 27 years of active duty in both peace time and in war. My wife and I just purchased a beautiful Condo on a Gulf Course. Hopefully in the next year or so I can learn to play gulf.
We have a HOA in place. The HOA was previously in the hands of the developers. Since all the lots have been sold, the HOA is now in the hands of the property owners. We are in the process of creating a Board with 5 voting members. We are to vote of board members on January 5th, 20121. There were three individuals elected to run a temporary board until we vote in our new board. One of the individuals (Mr. X) on the board is relator and he is running for the President of the HOA. Mr. X is also my next door neighbor.
When we moved into our Condo, we received no welcome by no one in the community. We found that very odd, but we soon found out why, but that is a long story. After 2-3 months, my wife was outside with are little Chihuahua (name Luke) playing with him. The next door neighbor Mrs. X was also outside. My wife approached her and introduced herself to Mrs. X. Mrs X immediately started "in a loud voice" you need to keep your dog from barking so much. Barking dogs are in violation of the HOA by laws. Mrs X kept on saying things about our dog barking all the time over and over and over. Mrs. X completely discarded the my wife's introduction to her. So my wife went back into the house. Yes, our dog barks like any other little Chihuahua until they get to know you. Mrs X was very disrespectful to my wife.
We (my wife and I) stayed on the "high road", saying Good Morning to Mr and Mrs X to an attempt to be nice and friendly. They never return a greeting. Even today when they see us, they don't say a word.
Over the past several months we have learn from other sources that Mr and Mrs X are angry individuals becasue they had to move from a $800,000 house into a $180,000 Condo, and they Mrs X lost $1.3 million dollars from her mother becasue of her husband filing a Chapter 7 for a failed business. But that is there business and not ours. But they should not take it out on us. We are a normal retired military family, middle class that pays ours bills, and lead an active and fun life.
I also requested a meeting with Mr X, but he will not meet with me becasue he says it doesn't have any value.
After reading the above, could someone give me some advise on how to effectively run for office of the President of the HOA. I want to block his nomination and run for the position, to but in some effective leadership in the community to turn it around. I have more experience in leadership then in the military. I am also a retired Vice President of an IT Department. I know for a fact, I turn instill some leadership in this community that will make us all a happy family.
So how do I run for office ?
Can a request to debate Mr X ?
How do I exposed Mr and Mrs X to the community as non leaders, and are very angry individuals becasue of their losses?
In closing, if you have any suggestions for me, I am open to anything, please send me e-mail to: [email protected]
Thanks
Dave
PS: I am not a good proof reading, so please forgive me for any grammar or spelling mistakes.